The Blogging Mindset: Manage Self-Doubt

When you're just starting out your very own blogging career- just like me- you can easily get overwhelmed jumping from one blog/site to another.

As blogs and blogging have steadily gained popularity, you'll find a wide variety of material out there- stuff you'd like to read, stuff you'd like to comment on, stuff you'd like to link to and share to your friends.

You can always check out the most popular blogs on Technorati, Digg or del.icio.us, and network with bloggers from all over the world on Facebook, Multiply or even Myspace. Or even just browse through other blogs on Blogger/Blogspot or Wordpress.

Then you realize- damn, my blog is nowhere near these other guys' blogs! My 20 posts are nowhere near the volume of articles put out by this one who's been blogging since 2004! Wow, it's got podcasts? Photo galleries? It's got streaming video too?

So you suddenly get hit by a wave of self-doubt and get rattled by the realization of how puny you look next to a whole bunch of other blogs.

At least, that's how I feel.

But the split personality in my head that is the voice of reason comes to the fore- "you should take a chill pill, man," it says, almost way-too-relaxed.

Remember that these guys- these veteran bloggers- have really put in the time building their blogs. The awe, fascination and authority is definitely well-deserved. The respect for what they have going on just comes naturally.

But remember this: all those veteran bloggers? They started where you started out too. Everyone at some point had been grasping at straws to come up with a post worthy of posting, just like many of us are right now.

Everyone must have, at some point, felt some degree of self-doubt. Just as some of us do now.

Story of my life, I suppose. When I started out as a jock at this local radio station in Metro Manila (99.5 RT) in 1994, I was a lowly trainee with these big, famous, hotshot DJs walking around. Naturally I was awestruck, at the same time I was the new kid, and I didn't mind that they'd almost totally ignore me, or make me do far-out exercises like talk about a random subject for fifteen minutes non-stop, or keep practicing my calls for everyone to hear. It was all part of training.

But part of the whole training process also tells you to just focus on your own thing- don't worry about what the listeners think, don't worry about your family and friends think. Listen to your seniors. Learn with your peers. Hone your craft and keep at it regardless of any kind of opposition.

A valuable lesson I keep coming back to every now and then.

So it's really that kind of persistence that helps build credibility. Every post you put up adds to your cred. Put in the effort, put in the time, play it smart, and you'll be running with the rest of the pack in no time.

Besides, blogging is supposed to be fun! Heck, it's really all about writing about the things you're totally into and sharing it with others. The money, fame, recognition, authority- everything else- means squat if you're not blogging for the love of it.

So next time you write your next post, take a deep breath and put yourself in a state of focus. This is your blog. This is what you have to say. This is your voice online. And in this blog, you are master of your own domain.

Cheers, everyone.